Community
Beyond the Derech is a private community for people who were raised frum and have moved on. It's a place to connect with others who get it — share experiences, arrange meetups, and build the social network that leaving often takes away.
Connect
Find others who understand your journey. No need to explain yourself — everyone here has been through it.
Meetups
Coordinate local and virtual meetups. Shabbat dinners (the fun kind), social events, and more.
Safe Space
Your privacy is protected. This community is verified and moderated to keep everyone safe.
Community Guidelines
- 1. Respect everyone's journey. People leave at different paces and for different reasons.
- 2. Protect privacy. Never share someone's identity or story without their permission.
- 3. No proselytizing. This is not a space for convincing people to return or adopt a new religion.
- 4. Be kind. We've all experienced enough judgment. Don't add to it.
Join the Community
To protect our members, we verify every applicant. Complete the eligibility quiz and provide a reference — someone who can confirm you belong here. Once approved, you'll receive a magic link to access the member area.