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Beyond the Derech
This Site Has Two Purposes
The Texts
Honest exploration of what Torah, Talmud, and halacha actually say—with sources you can verify yourself.
The Life After
Practical guidance for building a meaningful life outside the Orthodox world—community, resources, and support.
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Explore the Chapters
Each chapter examines a different area of Orthodox life with original sources and honest analysis.
Your Status
What They Call You vs. Who You Are
Sex
Pleasure, Shame, and Taking Back Your Body
Food
Beyond Kosher: Eating on Your Own Terms
Relationships
Love Beyond the Rules
Women's Rights
More Than Property
Non-Jews
The 'Chosen People' Problem
Bodily Autonomy
Your Body, Your Rules
Slavery and Racism
What They Don't Teach in Yeshiva
Shabbat and the Jew
Rest, Identity, and Finding Your Own Rhythm
Life Events
Birth, Coming of Age, Marriage, and Death—Your Way
The Good Stuff
What's Worth Keeping
You're Not Alone
Thousands of people have walked this path before you. Connect with others who understand, find resources to help you thrive, and build a community that accepts you as you are.
“If I am not for myself, who will be for me? But if I am only for myself, what am I? And if not now, when?”— Hillel, Pirkei Avot 1:14