Question 1

What is Beyond the Derech?

Accepted Answer

Beyond the Derech is a resource and community for people who have left or are leaving Orthodox Judaism. It offers honest exploration of Jewish texts, practical guidance for life after Orthodoxy, and a verified private community of people who understand the journey.

Question 2

Who is this site for?

Accepted Answer

Anyone who was raised in Orthodox Judaism and has left or is considering leaving. It's also for friends and family members who want to understand the experience. You don't need to have fully left — people at every stage of questioning are welcome.

Question 3

What does OTD mean?

Accepted Answer

OTD stands for 'Off the Derech' — a term used in Orthodox communities to describe someone who has left the religious path. While some people embrace the label, others find it reductive. Beyond the Derech uses it as a familiar starting point, but our goal is to help you define yourself on your own terms.

Question 4

Is the site free to use?

Accepted Answer

Yes. All chapters, resources, glossary entries, and educational content are completely free. The community features require a verified membership to protect member privacy, but there is no cost to join.

Question 5

Is the community safe and private?

Accepted Answer

Yes. Every community member is verified through a background knowledge quiz and a voucher system. We never share member information, and all community interactions are moderated. Your privacy is our top priority.

Question 6

How do I join the community?

Accepted Answer

Visit the Community page and follow the application process: verify your email, complete an eligibility quiz that confirms your Orthodox background, provide your date of birth (you must be 18+), and list someone who can vouch for you. Applications are typically reviewed within 1-2 days.

Question 7

What if I'm still observant but questioning?

Accepted Answer

You're welcome here. Many people explore these questions while still observant. The educational content is available to everyone, and if you decide to apply for community membership, we welcome people at every stage of their journey.

Question 8

Can my family or friends use this site?

Accepted Answer

Absolutely. The educational content — chapters, glossary, and resources — is designed to be useful for anyone who wants to understand what Orthodox Judaism actually teaches and what it's like to leave. Friends and family often find it helps them understand their loved one's experience.

Question 9

Where do the text sources come from?

Accepted Answer

Every source cited on this site can be verified through Sefaria.org, a free online library of Jewish texts. We link directly to each source so you can read the original texts in context and draw your own conclusions.

Question 10

I'm in crisis. Where can I get help?

Accepted Answer

If you're in immediate danger, call 911. For mental health crises, call or text 988 (Suicide & Crisis Lifeline) or text HOME to 741741 (Crisis Text Line). Visit our Resources page for organizations that specifically support people leaving Orthodox communities.

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